Content of the material
- 1 Remain Calm
- 7 Don’t Flaunt
- 3. Its a symbol of a bigger problem
- Fact #7: Sexual dreams
- 8. Youre trying to forgive them after a bad breakup
- Fact #11: Increased brain activity
- If I panic when I see my ex will he or she not love me?
- What to do if you see your ex on Tinder, Bumble or any other dating apps
1 Remain Calm
One of the best tips for when you see your ex in public is to remain calm. Don’t lash out if they recently just hurt you, don’t make obscene or rude loud gestures, and for goodness sake, don’t cause a dramatic scene if you’ve been in daily puddles of tears missing them. Remember, you want to appear strong, independent, and not so mad that you don’t know how to act in public. Remaining a lady in these situations can be tough, but your reputation will give you a big thank you for it later, as will your friends who are with you!
7 Don’t Flaunt
If you got a great new job, new car, or are dating someone new, it is fine if the topic comes up naturally in a conversation, but if you see your ex out in public, don’t flaunt this information and expect to get positive attention. Flaunting to an ex makes it hard to come off as attractive, nor is it ever well-respected. Remember, you’re good enough just the way you are; you don’t need to flaunt that you’re making tons more money or dating a so much better guy now. Better yet, allow them to ask you about your life, and then naturally bring it up through simple conversation without being arrogant about it. What you say is all in how you deliver it.
3. Its a symbol of a bigger problem
“Most of the time, however, dreams are symbolic and not literal,” Mead said. “Your feelings are probably best directed toward healing whatever happened to make you exes in the first place.”
So basically, if you’re dreaming about your ex, think about why your relationship ended and what you could have done differently. If it was your fault — and even if it wasn’t — sorting that out and preventing it from happening in future relationships could put these dreams to an end.
Fact #7: Sexual dreams
The very scientifically-named “nocturnal penile tumescence” is a very well documented phenomena. In laymen’s term, it simply means that you get a stiffy while you sleep. Actually, studies indicate that men get up to 20 erections per dream.
8. Youre trying to forgive them after a bad breakup
If things between the two of you didn’t end well and there was never an opportunity for forgiveness, the dream could be your brain’s way of creating that opportunity for you. According to Dreamstop, it might represent the fact that you need to make peace with your ex. Want the dreams to stop? Forgive your ex when you’re awake and conscious, and that might just do it.
Fact #11: Increased brain activity
You would associate sleeping with peace and quiet, but actually our brains are more active during sleep than during the day.
If I panic when I see my ex will he or she not love me?
Feelings don’t disappear overnight and the odds are that your ex is still attached to you one way or the other; especially if you were together for a long time. When I hear people ask me this question “if I panic when I see my ex will they no longer love me?” it tells me a few things; first of all it means that you are not in the right mindset to seduce your ex and it probably entails that you are still very much emotionally dependent to your ex. Like many other people, you probably need your ex’s validation in order to feel good and to be at peace.
In order to be comfortable around your ex and to seduce him or her again the next time you will see each other, you will need to evolve and to surprise him or her. The best way to get back with your ex is to focus on your own personal development! Quite simply you need to regain a sense of purpose and the drive to do new interesting activities to feel good and to make your ex want to be around you; for him or her to want to partake in your joy. You cannot make an ex love you again or want to be with you when you speak about your feelings or emotions. By professing your love to your ex you will not make him or her reconsider their decision to leave you or the breakup. It is only through actions undertaken over a certain period of time that you will inspire your ex to want to be with you!
What to do if you see your ex on Tinder, Bumble or any other dating apps
Obviously it’s not going to be very pleasant to see that your ex has put herself back into the mix in the dating market, especially online. There’s nothing you can directly do about it without coming across needy and desperate, unfortunately.
That said, doing nothing IS doing something. By not reacting to it (at least not in a way that she can see), she’ll pick up on your calm and non-needy attitude with regards to her being on dating apps. Because obviously if the app showed her to you, then it can just as easily show you to her too, right. So she’ll know that you’ve seen that she’s on there, and given that you won’t have reacted to that with jealousy, she’ll think you’re laid back about it.
That’s what you want her to think (that you don’t have a problem with it), because if she thinks you’re okay with her dating other guys, she’ll assume YOU have other options in the dating market too. If you didn’t, you’d have complained about her being on these dating apps.
Like all women, she likes men who have options. Perceived options conveys high value.
Should you contact your ex on a dating app? In short, no. I imagine there’s other channels of communication open between you from your past relationship, so use those. And if she’s blocked other forms of communication, it’s better to lay low for a while and do some no contact, than to resort to contacting her on tinder or some other dating app. When she’s feeling more open to communicating with you, she’ll unblock the other channels of communication.